Tuesday, November 09, 2004
i'd posted this post long ago, but now that 1 or 2 people actually read this thing (or so i would like to believe) i thought i might actually get an answer...i'm writing a book about manners (you would really appreciate the irony of this if you knew me better) and am in need of pet peeves (no, it's not that i don't have enough of my own, but it's about perspective) so if you happen to have any pet peeves or things that really get on your nerves (preferably pertaining to other people and their manners), feel free to comment, or email me, or hire a sky writer, or get your own show on public access cable... whatever - if your annoyances rock hard enough, i'll thank you in my book (or i'll just steal your ideas and totally take credit for them - depends on my mood that day)
9 comment(s):
By Tim, at 9:05 AM
By asyl076, at 11:11 AM
-Turn off your cell phone during a meal.
-Acknowledge the freaking waiter when they come to your table!
-Don't ignore the hostess. She can actually help you! (I am mystified by these businessmen who storm right past me when they come in the restaurant, then get lost in the dining room and come back out to the hostess stand and yell at me about being lost! As if I should have thrown myself in their path!)
- Don't hit on waitresses or hostesses. We're not strippers. We're not their for your amusement. We're there to make money and go back to our happy, fulfilled lives.
Oh, I'll stop there.
By Anonymous, at 12:51 PM
Speaking of Halitosis...lack of dental hygiene is a pet peeve of mine. If you have yellow teeth and are trying to get my attention. You better believe you've got it, I'm just not going to hear a word you say! EWWW!!!
Cell phones: If you are standing in line to buy groceries and it is time to pay, get off of it.
If you are driving inordinately slower than the speed limit, get off of it. If you are in a public place speaking 10 decibals louder than anyone in that public place, get OFF of it! ; )
Miss Manners at dinner: Don't be rude to the wait staff, don't under tip because you didn't like how your food tasted. If I go to dinner with someone and that someone isn't overly friendly to the wait staff, they will hear about it. I get very uncomfortable when wait staff are treated like servants. I have been known to apologize after dinner on behalf of unfortunately rude company I was in. They aren't your damn maid, you aren't paying them to molly coddle you. Be NICE! However, turning the coin: Wait Staff if you are rude because you've had a bad day, do not take it out on the customer. You know the old adage: don't bite the hand that feeds you. Yes, being mean (without reason) to the customer will cost you.
If i think of more, you'll know! ; )
By nique, at 2:22 PM
By SuperP., at 8:13 PM
By Paul, at 8:25 PM
"sorry ma'am, thats great advise and all, but i seem to have forgot to bring my notepad TO THE GAS STATION."
my children are fed, warm, safe and semi-tame. please dont tell me that they need a hat on or that they really should be sitting down in the grocery cart. they are my children. go make your own.
"keep it up and ill show you where the lil one learned to bite..."
By kate., at 9:48 PM
People pick up their cell phones in the car. A car is a small space. When a person starts to talk on a cell, the rest of us have no choice but to listen to him/her. (most of the time, we are NOT interested!!)
When I can see the SUV drivers in the car behind me talking on the cellphone, that annoys the hell out of me. I have a new car. I don't wanna be rear ended by a SUV!!
i can't wait to see your book!!!
By Feizi, at 10:36 AM
Reaching over my food
People who take a bite of food and then tell me about their day
People who expect me to answer their question with food in my mouth
People who chew with their mouth open or make any unnecessary sounds while they are eating
People who take things while asking. As in “can I have a bite of that, as they take it off your plate?”
I have other pet peeves that are silly. Why is it when you walk out a row of six doors at the mall that a person coming into the mall will cross five doors to enter the one you just opened? You can also be walking out a door and walk past five doors and the person right behind you will follow you to the last door. It’s kind of freaky.
I don’t mind people waiting for my parking spot but don’t stalk me on my way to my car.
I can’t stand people who feel it is ok to bump into me in line. I understand that you have to be close enough to avoid an intersection starting between us but don’t touch my goods.
I have a lot more but that’s all I can come up with right now.
By Anonymous, at 2:38 PM
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