Monday, December 20, 2004

How's this boy situation...

a friend of mine is seeing this boy...and he's really cute and sweet...and the two of them get along really well...and have a good connection...but he's a musician... and, as such, their future is probably pretty bleak... you know, because his idea of monogamy is completely different from anyone else.

anyhow, so my friend was at a holiday party last night with the boy...and a bunch of his friends... and there was a different boy there who my friend felt a really strong connection with. and this other boy has a girlfriend... but they're about to break up. so... my friend noticed that she and this other boy (let's call him boy "B") were having conversations with each other about absolutely nothing in particular ... kind of just to talk to each other... cuz it seems that my friend and boy "b" could totally hit it off... and if i remember my friends words...she said that she had the specific thought "i think i'm in love with him (boy 'b')"....

wow, my friend has a dramatic boy situation wouldn't you say?

so, here is what i think my friend should do....

she should continue dating the musician...then when he breaks her heart... boy "b" will be there waiting for her... and he will totally understand and the two of them will live happily ever after...and have really beautiful children together...

what should i tell my friend?

posted by Jootastic at 8:26 AM |

6 comment(s):

  • I think it depends on what your friend is really getting out of this relationship with the musician and if your friend thinks it's worth riding out - and your friend needs to remember that there is no guarantee that plan "b" would still be waiting for her... oh, and he still has a girlfriend, so he might have some issues from that relationship depending how long that's been going... but the whole scenario has "romantic comedy" movie written all over it

    By Blogger Veruca Salt, at 9:05 AM  

  • it really is a romantic comedy of sorts...

    my friend and boy "b" are SO into each other. and he's perfect.

    the problem is that...my friend really digs the musician...they have a really cool time together. and the only time she'll have the chance to see boy "b" will be when she's at the musician's house.

    i think my friend is going to have to play this one by ear so to speak.

    By Blogger Jootastic, at 9:41 AM  

  • I don't think I'm going out on a limb here when I say that your friend will inevitably be either hurt or disappointed. Boys don't really work that way. Sadly, the whole "we hit it off and could talk about anything" phenomenon isn't as driving a force in our world.

    Plus, if she's dating a friend of his, then the Code of Boys says there can be no happily ever after. Only secret sex that will be publicly denied later. Men can be very selfish.

    By Blogger Agent 31, at 10:21 AM  

  • sad.

    By Blogger Jootastic, at 10:22 AM  

  • i was going to say pretty much what cate said, but then she went and said it first. so yeah. what she said.

    By Blogger Jaime, at 11:28 AM  

  • I'd agree pretty much with Maine. The whole "we hit it off and could talk about anything" from a guy's point of view is "I was talking to this hot chick with a nice rack for a while." Of course, assuming your friend is a hot chick with a nice rack.

    By Blogger Tim, at 12:55 PM  

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